"My challenge to you," the bishop smiled, pointing toward the forty primary children in front of him, "Is to share something you learned today in Primary with one of your friends."
I love when the bishop visits our Primary. He towers over the children and wins them over with his genuine smile and his simple testimony. (And it's always interesting to hear the remarks from his nine-year-old daughter in Senior Primary; she is a sweet girl and quite the character!) After his message, I got up to teach the lesson, and then Renee Priddis stood to lead the children in Singing Time.
After I sat down from teaching, I found I was still thinking about the Bishop's invitation--to share something we learned in Primary with one of our friends. If he had asked the kids to do it, well, I should probably do it too.
So here is what I learned. I learned that all of us--even, and perhaps especially, children--have the capacity to influence others for good. Their attitudes and actions can make a big difference in the lives of their siblings, parents, friends, and neighbors. A scripture I had studied for my lesson, and which the Bishop had shared in his message, is 1 Timothy 4:12: "
Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity" (emphasis added).
I remember being encouraged by this scripture six years ago, when I was called to be Young Womens president in our Illinois ward. I was just 22 years old--closer in age to some of the young women than than I was to their parents! This scripture reminded me that age didn't really matter. I could contribute my service and skills and testimony regardless of my age or experience. "Behold, the Lord requireth the heart and a willing mind" (Doctrine and Covenants 64:34). That's all he asks, and I found that when I worked diligently and prayed sincerely, He made up the rest.
I'm continuing to appreciate this scripture now that I am a new Primary president. I may not have a lot of prior experience working in Primary, but I love the children and I love my Heavenly Father. I am continually amazed at the wisdom and understanding of these children. During my lesson, I asked if any of them could share a time when they had served someone else, or when they had shared their testimony with a friend. A dozen children responded, each telling a story of how they had helped a friend or a classmate or a sibling. These children know who they are, why they are here, and where they are going. Most adults in our world today don't have half the direction and confidence that my young Primary children have. It is inspiring to me, and I am so grateful for the Restored gospel of Jesus Christ in my own life. I too know who I am and what Heavenly Father's plan is for me. I hope that I can always be an example of the believers--"in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity."